‘ I am a 35 yr old born again Christian sister married to a very conservative pastor! In my previous relationships before marriage, while still in the world, I had a lot of oral s£x from partners and I seem to be addicted to it. It relaxes me and makes me reach orgasm better than penetrative s£x! I have been married for 2 yrs now and I am sexually frustrated! My hubby doesn’t want to hear it. I tried convincing him but he has refused vehemently!

Sir, Is it a sin to have Oral S£x with your Christian spouse? Is there a way I can convince this man I love so much ?’

Mature married Christians and Pastors, advice needed pls?